‘’Being yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is one of the hardest things mankind can achieve’’ – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Being yourself means letting your character be involved in different settings and circumstances without losing touch of your inner calmness or stillness. Your character is shaped out of the desire who you want to be in every moment of your life. If your desires are very clear and focused then you will see many distractions in life that won’t contribute in fulfilling those desires. These mechanics can lead you too moments in your life where you need a strong YES or an even a stronger NO. The YES can be seen as very impulsive and uncoordinated for your environment and your NO can be perceived as very rude or arrogant. So the more you will become your higher self, the more grounded you will be in every moment. This grounding process can cause many conflicts with your environment. Your environment is always trying to control you in one way or the other. Do not panic if you don’t know your strongest desires and dreams. There is great growth and lessons hidden in all the moments you experience life. Being out of alignment with your self gives you perspective to come back into alignment.
It is quite common in today’s active world that people get lost in this attachment of reality and the amount of distractions it contains. Don’t fool yourself by justifying your needs of these distractions. Deep inside your being you know exactly what you want to achieve in your life and what your strongest desires are. Don’t get lost in the duality of the physical world. Good and bad events only exist in separation because of your attitude. Try to be less judgmental in terms of right or wrong and you will see and feel what oneness is.
When you are in this state of high awareness and you have the confidence in your abilities and growth potential to achieve your desires, you should act on it right now. Don’t delay this calling by finding excuses or feeling guilty for other men’s expectations of you. Be courageous and rebellious in your decisions because that will make the difference in fulfilling those desires or not. You will create your own path in life instead of being a follower and reality will shape itself around you. Try to inspire other people during your journey and don’t lose yourself in the beautiful and ugly distractions the world is always offering to you.